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There is a chemical in a girls’ brain is released only two different times in her life, when she has sex, and when she breast feeds her baby. This chemical emotionally connects her to another person for the rest of her life. Us guys? We only release this chemical when we bond with our children. So if you think sex is a game and go around fucking as many girls as you want, remember that you can mentally mess this girl up for the rest of her life. If you’re still friends afterwards then whatever, but she will always feel some sort of feeling for you, just because of the chemical.
It’s called Oxytocin, it’s actually released when a woman gives birth as well. But this is so true… sex is more than just a game, and this is a clear reason that explains why humans were only created to have sex with just one person. Doing it with multiple people will have a very strong negative effect on your relationship with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I wish more kids knew about this… not that this should be your only motive not to have sex before marriage, but it is one of the most important.
Everyone should know this.
Guess what. Men release oxytocin when they orgasm, too. Implying that they don’t is basically benevolent sexism, because it’s implying that women are biologically more emotional about sex, and for men, the emotional impact doesn’t come in until children are born. That’s extremely condescending. If women want to sleep around and enjoy themselves physically with different people, they’re certainly physically capable of it, and that’s okay, as long as all partners understand this so neither sex gets hurt. (Assuming we’re talking only about hetero couples in the first place - but come to think of it, if this post were true, gay couples inherently would have less of an emotional connection, because of their biology. I call BS on that too.)
Also, oxytocin isn’t just from orgasm and childbirth. You get it from many close interactions with your partner. It can be released from just cuddling. Okay? This post is really subtly sexist for the reasons I mentioned before, but it’s also a form of slut shaming. I’m not saying guys should go around sleeping with as many girls as possible and fuck all if their feelings get hurt. But at the same time, that doesn’t mean it’s wrong to sleep with more than just one person in your entire life, which is literally what this is saying. I wouldn’t be ranting so much about it, but look at the notes! A LOT of people are paying attention to this, and it’s flat out wrong. No one should be shamed for their sexuality, assuming it’s between consensual adults, no matter how many people are involved. And yes, this is coming from someone who’s monogamous, but it wouldn’t matter if I’ve slept with a few dozen guys. Emotional connections are wonderful and they can certainly make sex better, but saying you can’t have that with more than one person over the course of your life just because you release oxytocin during orgasm is like saying you can’t love more than one of your children because you release oxytocin during childbirth.
